This month we lost another iconic figure in country music. A true outlaw, David Alan Coe did more than talk about prison, he served time at the Ohio State Pen for auto theft (three years) and was in and out of juvenile facilities most of this childhood. Its hard to truly understand the man whose manager labeled him best - complicated.
DAC had a tendency to invent stories. Embellish the facts. Outright lie about his experiences. That is what makes it difficult to explain his life - so much fiction mixed in with some facts. And then there was the controversial content he wrote. His x-rated songs and even a pornographic novel. Fans loved him, and fans hated him.
But we can't deny his impact on what is called outlaw country music. His songs like Longhaired Redneck, Would You Lay With Me (In a Field of Stone), Take This Job and Shove It are still country classics. And of course You Never Even Call Me By My Name.
Steve Goodman actually wrote the song while staying at a hotel in New York City. John Prine was staying with him but decided to go out on the town that night while Goodman stayed behind and wrote the song. When Prine got back, he looked over Goodmans shoulders and saw the verse “it was all I could do to keep from crying ….” so Prine jumped on the bed and pretended to play the fiddle while singing his own lyrics “You don't haev to call me darling … darling”. But the song has a few versions. There's Steve Goodmans lyrics, there's Prines version and then what DAC actually recorded.
DACs version is pretty close to the original version but the last verse is quite different. Goodman wrote:
Well it was all I could do to keep from cryin'
Some times it seems so useless to remain
You're the one who always tried to change me
And that is why I will always stay the sameChorus:
But I'll hang around as long as you will let me
I never minded standing in the rain
You don't have to call me darlin', darlin'
But you never even call me by my nameNo, you don't have to call me Freddy Fender
You don't have to call me Charlie Pride
You don't have to call me Merle Haggard anymore
Even though you know you're on my fighting sideChorus- this verse only:
And I'm gonna hang around as long as you will let me
I never minded standing in the rain (when nights are cold and lonely)
You don't have to call me darlin', darlin'
But you never even call me by name.[musical by mouth improv done in a Merle Haggard-like tone -no words]
[spoken] I've seen my name, a few times in the phone book
[spoken] And on the neon sign above the bar I used to own
[spoken] And there's only one thing I'm really sure of was that sucker
You're gonna hear it when my savior calls me home[spoken] That's a lot to get into one song. We left out all the good stuff. Dallas, dope, divorce, dead dogs, trains prison Christmas, mothers, farms, and trucks. Mothers, prison, trucks, trains, farms, Christmas, and dead dogs are essential, you can't have a good country song without them things. And with all due respect this song needs mothers, prison, trucks, trains, farms, Christmas and dead dogs and is that it? Whatever it is - it's also 4 minutes long already (they're going 'when's he gonna end, when's he gonna end in the booth back there') So I'll just tack this verse on the end here-
Ever since the dog died and mama went to prison
Ain't nothin' round this old farm that's been the same
[Spoken] You know when mom broke out last Christmas
She drove the getaway laundry truck into a trainChorus:
But I'll hang around as long as you will let me
I never minded standing in the rain
You don't have to call me darlin', darlin'
But you never even call me by my name
The David Allan Coe version:
It was all that I could do to keep from cryin'
Sometimes it seems so useless to remain
You don't have to call me darlin', darlin'
You never even call me by my name.
You don't have to call me Waylon Jennings
And you don't have to call me Charlie Pride.
You don't have to call me Merle Haggard, anymore.
Even though your on my fightin' side.Chorus:
And I'll hang around as long as you will let me
And I never minded standin' in the rain.
You don't have to call me darlin', darlin'
You never even call me by my name.I've heard my name a few times in your phone book
I've seen it on signs where I've laid
But the only time I know, I'll hear David Allan Coe
Is when Jesus has his final judgment day.Chorus:
Well, I was drunk the day my Mom got outta prison.
And I went to pick her up in the rain.
But, before I could get to the station in my pickup truck
She got runned over by a damned old train.Chorus:
So I'll hang around as long as you will let me
And I never minded standin' in the rain.
No, You don't have to call me darlin', darlin'
You never even call me, I wonder why you don't call me
Why don't you ever call me by my name.
Of course, it was DACs version that became a hit. Prine actually asked to have his name removed from the credits. Legend has it he thought the song was too silly.
When DAC died, you didn't hear a lot from his peers. Simple statements. No long heart felt eulogies. Many just said he was complicated. And so was their relationship. But one thing is for sure, difficult, complicated or otherwise, DAC left a mark on country music good bad or indifferent.
RIP DAC